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14th Dec 2022 15:04 - 2 years ago
Description : Monday afternoon I had the devastating news that a far away friend is diagnosed with cancer (treatable, but still).
These are the moments we want to be with our friends, hug them, talk, cry, maybe laugh. But sometimes we are far from our friends and family, and that's not so easy.

But we are creators, and we can always let them know how we feel with a song. This one is for you, Cindi.
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Here's a rare video of me performing it :)
youtu.be/eyCd0MvAbWI

Comments (12)

If you have time take a listen and give BaoBou some feedback.

Killick
Killick 20th Dec 2022 05:36 - 2 years ago
Yikes man, so sorry to hear about your friend. One of my really close friends was diagnosed this year too actually and sitting by without being able to DO anything to help is so frustrating. Your care and concern for her really do shine through in this song. From what you've said above it sounds like you were trying to say something deeper and more impactful than just the words you sang in this song and you definitely succeeded. Well done!

Cam
secondnature1
secondnature1 18th Dec 2022 15:54 - 2 years ago
I just lost my mother to cancer on Dec.7th 2022. I'm so sorry to hear about your friend. You have honored them.
Jonathan
BaoBou
BaoBou replied 18th Dec 2022 - 2 years ago
Holy crap Jonathan, I'm so sorry :(
I actually had to stop and sit down for a moment. That hit me like a hammer, and obviously nothing like it must have hit you.

I read a poem the other day that moved me to tears (I also wrote a song for it). It's also comforting though, through the pain. I hope it might give you a sliver of comfort.

The poem is by Donna Ashworth:

When I go,
don’t learn to live without me,
just learn to live with my love,
in a different way.

And if you need to see me,
close your eyes,
or look in your shadow,
when the sun shines,

I’m there.

Sit with me in the quiet and you will know,
that I did not leave.

There is no leaving when a soul is blended with another.

When I go,
don’t learn to live without me,
just learn to look for me in the moments.

I will be there.
RitajustRita
RitajustRita 17th Dec 2022 22:49 - 2 years ago
It's true that emotions make the best tracks.
Unfortunately this is terrible what she is going through right now but let's hope and assume that it will be ok.
To hear such a beautiful track from a friend will definitely give her a lot of support.
Very well done!!
BaoBou
BaoBou replied 18th Dec 2022 - 2 years ago
Thanks a lot Rita!
dimestop
dimestop 16th Dec 2022 12:21 - 2 years ago
nice track bro, can feel the emotion in this one. its hard news to be given, that's one scary word cancer. and its not easy when your not living close to said person, you want to be there just to say i got you. best wishes to Cindi, im sure she knows how you feel and this just backs up your words great work mate.
BaoBou
BaoBou replied 16th Dec 2022 - 2 years ago
Thanks a lot Paul!
You know what, I just played it again and it was great to again sing along at full power. I'd be looking forward to playing it live even (too bad I can't clone myself to sing and play all instruments at the same time ;) ).
2Sisters
2Sisters 15th Dec 2022 17:47 - 2 years ago
Hello, I think right now in this pre-Christmas period, one should think about the people who are not doing so well. To the people who have to endure great suffering. To the people who are lonely, whether loneliness is in their hearts or they have no one around them. There are so many people worth thinking about. Sick people, hungry people, displaced people. I think your song stands for all these people who should be given a nice thought, even if your song is about a good friend. Folks, just stop, stop what you're doing, close your eyes and just give someone your thoughts for a second. Greetings Manuela
BaoBou
BaoBou replied 16th Dec 2022 - 2 years ago
Thanks Manuela, that's beautifully said and I couldn't agree more!
Btw some minor cleaning and updates applied and shortened the track a bit.
crucethus
crucethus 15th Dec 2022 03:49 - 2 years ago
Sometimes the best work we do is when we have an emotional goal, as you have presented to us here. The song is sublime, and the mix is great. I really like your vox treatments on your voice, it fits your style well. I could hear you play this live and extend the instrumental part as a coda at the end, sort of how Roxy does that on "More than this", or Mark Knopfler with "On every street". Otherwise Brilliant and my thoughts are with Cindi's recovery, Your a good friend to her mate!
BaoBou
BaoBou replied 15th Dec 2022 - 2 years ago
Thanks Steve!
Yeah you hit the nail on the head as usual. I'll work a bit more on the bridge (wherever we are) and the ending (I'm here for you) but this'll do for now :)
CINCOCENT
CINCOCENT 14th Dec 2022 19:21 - 2 years ago
Beautiful heartful dedication. For sure music is a inner emotion changer or healer i should say. Obvious this is not a great situation but she did inspire you to create this good work man love the singing the lyrics sure helped her a lot
BaoBou
BaoBou replied 15th Dec 2022 - 2 years ago
Thanks for your warm remarks buddy!
Yeah it was cathartic, which is I guess why I wrote it in 24 hours. Let's hope it helps her a bit in the tough times ahead!
phantomproduction
phantomproduction 14th Dec 2022 18:20 - 2 years ago
well done, I think the whole community sympathizes with this news, keep hope!! great lyrics and vocals!
Michael
BaoBou
BaoBou replied 14th Dec 2022 - 2 years ago
Thanks a lot Michael, it's much appreciated, always looking forward to your feedback!
rockoff
rockoff 14th Dec 2022 18:02 - 2 years ago
i love it dude nice work and I hope your friend is coping and hope your coping 2
BaoBou
BaoBou replied 14th Dec 2022 - 2 years ago
Thanks a lot buddy, much appreciated! Yeah I'll cope, of course the main burden will be on her, but she's strong and has a good husband. We can only aim to help!
Angelus777
Angelus777 14th Dec 2022 16:34 - 2 years ago
Hi BaoBou,

Sorry to hear about your friend, wishing all the best, it's a bitter pill to swallow with any kind of cancer. Your voice is so full of emotion and sounding positively wonderful! this is such a heartfelt dedication. A GREAT! song indeed and so touching, I think your friend is lucky to have you as a friend. TOP! WORK & instant fave I love this one from you and it's so very well written. GET WELL SOON Cindi. BaoBou, you did real good here.
Bravo!!!
BaoBou
BaoBou replied 14th Dec 2022 - 2 years ago
Thank you so much Angie. Yeah there is real emotion here - sometimes my lyrics just tell a story, but this is straight from the heart. I'm also surprised at how I wrote the whole thing basically in 24 hours. I'll pass on your wishes, much appreciated!

And good to see you active these days, you posted some wonderful songs!
Shaman77
Shaman77 14th Dec 2022 16:08 - 2 years ago
Nice song hope your friend is ok
BaoBou
BaoBou replied 14th Dec 2022 - 2 years ago
Thank you Aleksandr!

They say my friend will be ok, but I think 2023 will be a very tough year... surgery and radiation is not a lot of fun. But medical science is amazing in how much we can do these days and how much is considered treatable, so I hope for the best.
DijamMusic
DijamMusic 14th Dec 2022 15:17 - 2 years ago
Ahh My god, your voice is spectacular.
It is really good.
I love this track.
Well done mate.
Maj
BaoBou
BaoBou replied 14th Dec 2022 - 2 years ago
Thanks a lot buddy. I hope people can recognise the emotions in it and can feel how much it moves me.

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